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    • #18337
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      NUPTIAL VICISSITUDES Episode VI
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      She would never know what really is going on. I think she’s very desperate about our marriage that she couldn’t even pause to think clearly. But, you really have to see how I acted and the words I said. No woman on earth can resist that. I really should be an actor. I even reaped some benefits.’ He scoffed. ‘Some benefits? Are you trying to make me jealous or something? She’s so silly. She couldn’t even wait till tomorrow.’ Ara hissed.
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      “Are you jealous? Do I have to remind you she’s still legally my wife? So, unless you want our plan to fail, I must keep doing the jobs of a husband to my legal wife. Hey! She’s not and can never be as good as you.” He laughed as he kept looking at Mary afar off. “Well, you had your time. Just don’t let it distract you. Stay focused until everything is ready. And, will you come tonight to my house? I am already getting bored and lonely.”
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      “Alright. I will come but just for 2 hours. I have to spend more time with my wife. Especially now that we just got back. I have to go, Mary is coming. Till 6 pm, same venue.” He said as he hung up the phone. ‘Launch is ready, sweetheart. Come over and eat. It’s already 2:00 pm and we haven’t eaten.’ Mary said and walked back to the kitchen.
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      About 20minutes later, all that could be heard was the sound of spoon, fork, and knife clanging with the plates of Boiled potatoes and mashed beans.

      Ade was busy blowing hot steam out of his mouth as he scooped a spoonful of beans in his mouth. When the realized it was too hot for his tongue to bear, he forced it down his throat and immediately gulped a glass of water to cool down the intensity of the heat in his oesophagus. “Take it easy and let the food cool down a bit. No one is competing with you.” Mary said as she handed over another glass of water. ‘This food is so sweet I can’t just wait to empty the whole plate in my bowels. Hope you still have a lot remaining in the pot?’ He replied. ‘You should go for a cooking competition. I am sure you would win.’ She smiled and nodded. Ade saw her face and knew it was a forced smile. ‘What’s the problem? You don’t look happy.’
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      ‘When was the last time you ate my food? When last did we eat together? When last did we smile and laugh together? I was praying that this time came back but I didn’t just believe it would be today. When last did I see you in a broad daylight? You always went out as early as 6 am and you wouldn’t return till 9 pm. I am not saying I am not happy this is happening but I can’t just believe I am here and you are there. Its like magic. I am trying to believe this is not some kind of magical illusion or something. What really happened? How did you one day become a demon and another day, an angel?’
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      ‘I am the most mysterious creature I’ve come across. Don’t you agree?
      Three months ago, a guy named Akin just walked up to me and said he couldn’t believe I was the dumb guy to carry an empty vessel after several men had finished all the wine in it. He said you were nothing but a toy every man used and passed to another. I.can’t say everything he said because they were very derogatory. I told him to get out before I punch his face and that I knew you had such life before. I also told him that you were very different now and now a committed Christian. He laughed and scorned me, calling me a fool to believe that. He said that was exactly how all people like you do. After you spend your all sleeping with kind of men for money or just pleasure, you would join a church and suddenly become holy and committed just to get a good husband in church. They know that most churchmen are good, chaste but naive and stupid. They would just jump at a sister because she is beautiful, committed Christian and appear holy in her dressing claiming God revealed her to him. He said that the world is so bad that the Good ones eventually marry the rotten and used ones because they are naive and religious but the bad ones after spoiling many girls, still eventually end up with the good ones. He said I was the example of the stupid good man who stupidly married a bad girl pretending to now be a good one. He claimed to be one of the guys who used and dumped you.
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      I was raged and I sprang at him but he dropped an envelope and ran off. I picked the envelope and I saw three pictures. It was you and him in a swimming pool, kissing in the water. His words were like nails cracking my.skull and driving through my brain. I couldn’t bear it and I took it out on you. If that were all, it could have been easier but I bumped into a couple of guys claiming also to have been with you all having pictures to support their claims. I gave in to them. I became very angry and felt jilted. I felt I deserved to marry a better woman with a cleaner history. Even though I also wasn’t much of a saint when younger, I only flirted with a lot of women but I didn’t get to have sex with them. We did many things you could think of but sex even though I had all the chances and they were willing to give me. I felt it wasn’t right and It was too sacred to be done anyhow, with anyone, anywhere.
      I thought I cheated myself by saving myself for someone who not only had a rough past but an ugly rough past. I am not saying this to get you annoyed or sorry but that was what was on my mind. That was what caused the whole change in me. It was anger with jealousy. I am so sorry for hurting you.’
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      Mary’s eyes were heavy with tears as he spoke. She felt so sorry and at the same time felt bad for herself. She had allowed her youthful exuberance to cause a thorn in her life.
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      ‘Ade, I am so sorry. I know how hard it is to hear such things and not get mad. I am so sorry I wasn’t the chaste mother of Jesus you think would best for you. I wish I could turn back the hands of time and live a better life. I was young and stupid. I got into a very bad company and they introduced me to those things. I regret it more than anything in the world but unfortunately, I can’t rewind the time. I was honest enough with you before you made up your mind to marry me. You told me not to give you any details and we both agreed it was for the best. Only that, you betrayed me by listening to what an outsider would say about my past. What were you thinking when you allowed him to dig up the past? You thought a buried corpse would smell nice if dugout? You shouldn’t have listened. You should have shut him up and thrown him away. Why didn’t you allow me to be explicit to you? Was it not because you didn’t want to get hurt? Why then listen to someone else? You couldn’t fight my battle for me? I am as disappointed as you were angry. Then, you came home, ripped my life apart and made me wish I wasn’t born. There is something about the past, it can’t be undone. It can only be forgotten or be learned from. It’s long gone and nothing can be done to undo it. But what you did was extremely unfair. You intentionally made my life miserable and I don’t know how long that would heal up. I remember Akin and he exaggerated matters. I wasn’t a toy for all men as he claimed.
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      He only played on your emotions. And you knew that I am a better person. You knew I had changed for the better but you chose not to think of that.
      Let’s forget about that. Why the sudden change?’ She sniffed back the watery mucus running out of her nose into her skull.
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      ‘I realized I was wrong. I realized I made you suffer unjustly.’ He replied coldly. ‘Made me suffer unjustly? You did far more than that. Eat your food before it gets too cold.’ She said as she stood up and walked away from the dining room depressed.
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      To be continued.

    • #18336
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      NUPTIAL VICISSITUDES. Episode V.
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      Ade was comfortably seated in the gigantic bed, well dressed for an occasion and putting on his shoes when he heard footsteps running towards the door. He knew it was mary but the intensity and the sound her feet made with ground made him think otherwise. She turned the handle, kicked the door open and ran towards him. He sprang up from the bed and dashed into the bathroom shutting the door behind himself.
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      “Please, tell me this is a joke. Please.. please…. tell..me you are joking.” She said crying and screaming. “You have eventually ruined my life. You eventually have destroyed my life. What have I done to deserve this?”
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      Ade slightly opened the bathroom door and peeped to see if she wasn’t holding anything harmful. When he was sure, he came out of the bathroom. “Hey! Mary, what’s the problem? I thought you were with a knife and about to stab me. That was why I ran into the bathroom. What are you talking about? How did I destroy your life?” He spoke so calmly and collected as he went near she knelt. “Common, what’s the matter?”
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      “My God! Are you even human at all? I should have brought a knife as you thought and sliced that your tongue away. You served me a divorce letter and you still are playing dumb with me?” She said as she flung the divorce letter to him. “I am not going to sign that paper.
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      “Well, I didn’t want you to sign it,” Ade said softly. “I only wanted you to see what I had in mind.

      That was what I wanted until yesterday. I couldn’t sleep throughout the night and I thought about us.” He took the letter, shredded it into bits and threw it away. He knelt down close to her with his eyes full of tears. “I didn’t know what I was doing. Mary, I’ve been more than a demon to you in the past months and I don’t know what came over me. You are the love of my life and the best thing that had happened to me but what have I done in return? Nothing but pain. I don’t know if you’ll ever be able to forgive me and if I’ll ever be able to make it up to you but please, tell me what I may do to please you. I’m such a failure and a disappointment.” He wept.
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      Mary stood up and with her mouth opened and her ears almost spitting out what they swallowed. “What the hell! Are you for.. What are you saying?” She walked up and down the room with her two hands tightly help against her head. “Should I be happy about this or is this another trick? Do you know exactly what you are? Unbelievable. Very unbelievable. You were the prince charming when we were courting, Romeo when we were married and one day you changed. You changed so bad that I wish I never saw your shadows. You hurt me so bad that I almost committed suicide and you were like that till yesterday morning. I almost died of a heart attack a couple of minutes ago with your useless letter and now, you’ve changed? How can I believe a word from your mouth again?” She eventually sat on the bed to calm her tension.
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      Ade quickly drew near her again and knelt down facing her. “I am unbelievable. Yes, I am. I couldn’t believe myself to yesterday when for the first time, I realized how evil I had been. I am not asking you to believe me now and I will be a fool to expect you to forgive all I had done in a minute. All I am asking is for you to give me a chance to be the man I used to be. I almost tore this marriage apart but you with tears and in pain held it together with the remaining strength in you. You are truly a vitreous woman and a hero. The ground you step should be worshipped.” He reached out for her hands but she withdrew and folded it against her chest looking away from him.
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      “Your mouth is as sweet as it could be bitter. Do you know I’m still thinking it’s a dream and I would soon wake up? Should I be happy about this or be afraid I’ll wake up? Ade stood up and sat down close to her wrapping his arms around her kneck. “My mouth is as sweet as it could be bitter? You’ve tasted the bitter part but do you mind tasting the good part again?” He said as he slowly drew his mouth close to her lips.
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      “Are you kidding me?” She said with a little smile on her face. “The next thing is to kiss me? No way. Not today. I am already late for church” She said and turned her face away.
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      “Don’t worry. What do we do in church? Is it not a service? We’ll have our service here. Oh! What is a service? Every machine needs servicing after a while. Don’t you think?”

      He put his right ear on her chest for four seconds and withdrew. “Engineer Ade just discovered that Mary’s internal engine needs servicing after three months.” He said jokingly.
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      “Eh! What servicing are you talking about?” She asked as if she didn’t understand. “When did you become an Engineer?” “This type of servicing.” He said as he tickled her on her waist. She shook and laughed hysterical.
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      “Stop. .sto…stop..” she continued laughing and she eventually missed the whole church service but still had a great service with her husband.
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      It was around evening when Ara called in. “Hello, sweetheart. How did it go?” Ade went to the door, looked out and ensure Mary wasn’t close enough to listen to his conversation. She was far away in the kitchen. “Hey, babe! It went well. She took the bait like a fish. Mary is nothing but naive.
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      To be continued.

    • #18335
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      NUPTIAL VICISSITUDES…Episode IV
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      “What is the meaning of this? Since when did you start dressing and appearing like a whore?” He said with a not-so-firm voice. Mary did not utter a word neither did she seem to have heard anything he said. “Mary, is it not you I am talking to?” He raised his voice anxiously waiting for her reply as she only replied with silence. He stood still, wondering if she didn’t hear him or she deliberately refused to answer. The short silence was only broken by the ringing tune of her phone. She was charging it in the living room just beside the Television. She immediately reappeared in the living room and went straight for her phone, walking past her husband as if he didn’t exist.
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      By this time, Ade could see her better as she was hardly a meter away from him. He was enticed by her panache and exquisiteness. When last did he take a look at his wife? When last did he see his wife look pretty and alluring? All he had been seeing was an ugly, weak and tears-drinking troll. Just like magic, his hard heart was debilitated and his anger appeared melted. At that moment, all he felt was having his beautiful and sexy wife standing in front of him in his arms but his ego wouldn’t allow him to say so.
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      Immediately she unplugged her phone and was about to receive the call, he rushed towards her and seized her by the hand. “Was it not you I was talking too? Are you deaf or something? Have I suddenly become invisible in this house? Ehn? Answer me.” He shook her forcefully. “You are hurting me; Ade.” She replied in her contra-alto voice. “Since when did you start caring if I replied to you or not? Since when did my presence at home mean anything to you? When did I become Mary? I thought my first name is Witch and my surname is Prostitute. So, you have upgraded from verbal abuse to physical abuse?”
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      She looked at him straight in the eyes as she spoke confidently. That was the first time in 3 months they would look at each other in the eyes. Only a little part of his brain absorbed what she said as the larger part of his brain was busy in her face. He noticed her eyelashes as she winked and they were still as naturally thick, well separated and dark as before. He really loved to see her eyes as he used to tell her she had one of the cutest eyes in the world. It fascinated him to see her large polished-black pupils dilate in her snow-white aqueous humor. It was just like before only that he noticed some red lines appearing faintly. He felt like shutting her gently oiled moving lips with his own lips only for him to discover those lips suddenly stopped moving.
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      “If you have nothing to say, release my hand and let me receive the call.” She repeated. He tried to recollect what she had said earlier so he could give her a perfect response but couldn’t. “Who is that on the line? Never mind.” He added. “I was only calling to caution you. Why would you as a married woman, dress like this? And when did you start listening to Celine Dion?” He stuttered as he released her arm from his grip.
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      “Can’t a married woman dress as she likes in her husband’s house? After all, there is no stranger or third-party unless that husband himself is a stranger. About Celine Dion, is it a crime or a sin? I see that of recent, you have been in the perfect position to preach.”
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      The phone vibrated again and she went out of his presence to answer the call. As one could have guessed, it was Gloria and it was part of the plan. The plan was working quite well.
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      It was a tough night for Ade as he was torn in between two worlds. The reports and hard-core evidences he had heard concerning her pasts were enough to shatter a man’s heart coupled with the fact that he had been seeing another woman. The last three months were equally not easy for him as he had experienced a lot of things and had been thrown in a pool of overwhelming situations which were unspeakable and unheard of.
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      The dying love for his wife just got rekindled and he had been committing himself to another woman. The promises he made to his wife when they were still dating came like a flood into his mind. He could remember the first time he saw her was at Glorious Chapel when she led a special number. He had been attending the church for five months and never saw her until she led the Sinachs’ “You are the same”.
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      “Marcus,” he tapped his friend, “that babe get sweet voice o. Na everything about her sweet join.” He whispered into his ears. Marcus shook his head and replied sheepishly. “You no dey see fine girl for face, na so so your body go dey move. She dey sing praise God, na her voice and body you dey look. You need Jesus bro. You talk say you don change since but I never see any change. Better go marry and stop disturbing me.” They both laughed at continued listening. “Marcus,” Ade tapped him again, “as I dey listen go, be like say heaven open and I see Holyspirit dey tell me say na she be my wife.” Marcus scoffed so loudly that people around him were distracted.
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      That was the beginning of the Journey for both Ade and Mary. She was the best thing that happened to him. He usually called her Mary, Mother of Jesus whenever she refused to kiss him even though she also wanted it reminding him that it was wrong as Christians until they got married. “A soup is best eaten and taste sweetest when it is cooked. Don’t worry, it’s only a matter of time. Don’t let us eat our soup uncooked.” She would say sweetly. He loved her so much that when she told her she had had a rough time sexually but she changed completely for the best when she accepted Christ, he still went ahead and marry her.
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      Ade laid on his bed with sleep a milion miles away from his eyes. “What have I done to myself? I am torn between two women. How did I allow stories of her pasts to bring so much gap in between us? I have been so cruel on her. She has done nothing to deserve this. But, my mind is already made up. I hope I won’t regret what I am about to do.
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      He stood up and went to his silver briefcase, brought out a paper with some things printed on it, signed on it and went to the room where Mary slept and dropped it on her bed.
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      It wasn’t until 6:02 that Mary woke up. “Oh My God!” She exclaimed as she looked at the wall clock. “I would be late for Sunday school again.” She flung away her cover cloth, ran to the bathroom and cleaned up. As she was dressing up, she was half-dressed when she noticed a paper just on her bed. She took it and read through with her heart almost collapsing. It was a letter of divorce.
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      “Ade…….. She ran out of the room half-naked, half-dressed with tears trickling down her cheeks. Ade……
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      To be continued..

    • #18334
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      NUPTIAL VICISSITUDES… Episode III
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      It was barely 7 am the next day and there was a continuous rapping on Gloria’s door. ‘Mary, it’s not even 7 am and you are already here.’ Gloria exclaimed as she opened the door. Her eyelids were half opened and filled with Irritating eye exudates at the corners. White streaks of dry saliva drew horizontal lines from the corners of her mouth to her ears making a good rival to a zebra. Her fixed hair was badly ruffled and her mouth was protruded and rumpled up almost colliding with her nose.
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      ‘I’m sorry if I woke you up but I just can’t wait to find a solution. Go, dress up and let’s move.’ Two hours later, they were found in Mrs. Afe’s sanctum. It was the quietest place she had been for a long time. The room was magnificently beautiful and the artifacts and paintings on the wall were zest and captivating.
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      ‘You may have your seat ma’am.’ She said ‘and you may please excuse us for a while.’ She said looking at Gloria. Immediately Gloria left the room, she started. ‘Your friend, Gloria called me yesterday and said you needed help concerning your marriage. Well, here I am. All you have to do is tell me everything that happened before and in your marriage leaving no stone unturned that I may be able to help you. Don’t hide a thing.’
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      Three hours later, Mary came out of the room with a gentle smile on her face. ‘What did she say to you?’ Gloria asked. ‘A lot my friend. I think there is a light at the end of every tunnel. There is still hope. Let’s go home. I’ll gist you a bit on our way home.’ She said smiling again and hugged her. ‘Thank you so much for bringing me here.’ Gloria was torn between being confused and being happy. Anyways, she was happily confused and couldn’t resist the smile that was so close to her cheeks. ‘ Are we going to my house or hours?’ Gloria asked. ‘Mine of course’ Mary said and they zoomed off.
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      At Mary’s home, they both sat down and were having a deep discussion about Mary’s inchoates. Ade wasn’t at home as usual. He was either in his office or with his friends. He usually came back home just to sleep and if he felt like, throw tantrums, dummy spits, and hissy fits at his wife.
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      After they had planned, Gloria asked as she emptied the remaining wine in her mouth. ‘Mary, I have a question for you. How do you think Ade is coping sexually? You said he hasn’t touched you in three months. Couples are most sexually active in their first two to three years of marriage and he being a man makes it more complicated. Don’t you think he is getting served outside? Do you really think he is sexually starved? If he is, he could have made at least one move in 3 months.’
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      ‘I hope he isn’t for the sake of this marriage. I know him to be a God-fearing and moral man. I don’t think he should ever do that. If he does, then this marriage is as good as over. He would run away with the other woman sooner or later. Moreover, I am the one being sexually starved and he is the one punishing me.
      That’s not my major need anyways. All I want is for him to come back. I wish and pray he comes back as I still love him. I really hope he is sexually starved because if he isn’t, a part of our plan wouldn’t work. But, if he could treat me this way, who knows what he is fully capable of doing?’
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      Mrs. Afe had advised her to stop begging him as that only brought more pain and troubles. ‘He is wounded because he trusted you. Although, he purposely didn’t ask about the details of your past because he didn’t want to imagine another man on you whenever he is with you. Men are very graphical and they can imagine anything in their head. No man wants rivalry. A man wants to be the only tiger in the jungle. He wants to be only fish swimming the ocean, the only eagle soaring in the sky, the only paddle in your boat. The fact that you told him that you had a rough past was enough for him. He could have cleared that from his mind until someone came digging up very ugly things. He, seeing your face soaked in tears regularly would only make in more annoyed. You have to change strategies. You as a woman, a young beautiful woman for that matter can use your feminity to bring him close a bit and get him to talk with you. Sex is one of the ways to a man’s heart. No matter how angry he is with you, if you can just in any way get him into your matrimonial bed, and give him a good one, a part of him would automatically be opened to you. That wouldn’t happen by wailing and being moody.
      That’s the first step. You just have to make plans then you can start….’
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      In the afternoon, both Mary and Gloria went to the salon to make Mary a beautiful hairstyle as part of the plan. While Mary was making her hair do, Gloria went ahead to get some clothing materials, creams, irresistible cologne and kits that would do the trick for Mary.
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      ‘I feel a bit uncomfortable in this.’ Mary said as she looked at herself in the mirror. ‘I feel like I am a prostitute and a seductress. So, I would wear this around?’ Gloria burst into laughter. ‘And who exactly would you be seducing? Who is looking at you? Put and smile on your face my friend and make a 720degree turnaround.’ She said still laughing. Mary had to wear a forced smile and turned. ‘Wow! Mary, only a dead man would resist this temptation I am seeing. Please, don’t mistakenly go out of the house in this lest you cause accidents. I have to go home now and call me when he arrives so we can proceed to the next game. I’ll also keep praying for you.’ They hugged one another and Gloria disappeared.
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      It was around 8:00 pm when Ade came back. He was rather early this time. The door was left unlocked and so, she didn’t have to open the door for him. The television was on with the DVD playing Celine Dion’s ‘I drove all night’ on repeat. It was an unusual atmosphere as all the bulbs were lighted and the whole house was bright. Mary also wasn’t at the door with her gloomy face asking stupid questions about how his day went. She of course always received silence for an answer and mockery if she persisted.
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      ‘What’s all this nonsense?’ He thought. ‘Mar…’ he shouted but quickly held his voice. When last did he call her name? ‘Why am I even calling her?’ He thought. He dropped his bag on the cushion and went for the Television. As he switched off the DVD player, Mary came out from the guest room, passed through the sitting room and headed for the dining room without saying a word to him.
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      His eyes caught the figure of Mary, his wife as she rolled seductively in the tight, bum-fitted, elastic hobble skirt. The cologne that blew into his face was accompanied by a magical pheromone. His eyes remained fixed on her until she disappeared behind the curtains.
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      ‘Oh my…
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      To be continued.

    • #18333
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      NUPTIAL VICISSITUDES. Episode II
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      I opened the door for him and he didn’t give me the usual welcome kiss and hug but stormed into the bedroom without saying a word to me. All efforts I made to get a word from him got him more infuriated. I had never in my life seen his face like that. Smiles never left his face for a second but his face was hard, hot and stern. He even didn’t pull of his work clothes and shoes before he crashed on the bed. Since he refused to talk, I left him thinking he needed to clear his head and he would be better the next morning but I was wrong. I couldn’t even sleep in the room with him.
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      The next morning, I went to his room to see if he was awake and I saw him seated by the bedside steering at the wall and his hand carrying his cheeks. ‘What’s the matter? What happened? Please, tell me what had been on your mind?’ I asked almost crying. His response almost made me go crazy. ‘Can’t you just shut up you crazy bitch?’ He said ‘The words oozing out of your mouth are like sharp knives stabbing my wound.’ I felt a sharp movement in my brain and my head seemed empty. ‘What! What did you just call me? What..’ ‘Just shut your trap’ He screamed and sprang on his feet. The way he stood up scared me. It was as if he wanted to move closer and strangle my neck. ‘I was humiliated today. I knew I didn’t marry a virgin but I didn’t know I married a useless whore and a filthy rag which useless men had used to wipe their stinking sweats. I was so foolish and stupid.
      They said you cannot conceive a child in your womb. No wonder you insisted on using pills and injections because you do not want to get pregnant in our first year of marriage. I was so stupid to agree with you only to realise that you only did that to buy yourself time and excuses. I trusted you. I trusted the church. I gave you all my heart only for you to stab me where it beats fastest.’
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      He cried as he spoke, saying a lot of things. I fell on my knees and wept bitterly as he spoke. The words were too bitter for me to ingest. I never heard him use abusive and swear words before but that morning, he showed me that a demon could hide inside an angel. He later left for office.
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      Gloria, that scene still replays in my head till this moment.
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      Hours after, I kept ruminating and wondering who told him all he said. I kept wondering why the fact that he didn’t marry me a virgin suddenly became an issue to him. I had told him I had a quite rough past due to ignorance and he assured me he was Ok with it since I had changed for the better. I wondered who lied to him that I couldn’t carry a child in my womb.
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      Gloria, we both did many things together when still ignorant but we changed for the better. You are probably the only who can understand me since we’ve both been in the same shoes and out.
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      I don’t know who just took it upon himself to ruin my family and my life. That was the beginning of my marriage problems and its draining me out so fast.
      Since that very day, he stopped eating my food, he stopped coming home early and said I irritated him. He said any time he sees me, he sees me in bed with other men. Nothing I do ever pleases him anymore. I told him I stopped the pills so he could get me pregnant but he refuses to touch me. How can I prove to him that I can conceive in my womb when he refused to even look at me?
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      He keeps coming back home every time saying he had met another of my old sex mates and he is so derogatory with his words. There is no day since 3 months now that I smiled. I cry every night and day. In fact, my efficiency had reduced greatly in my company. He had been so hard on me that I once felt like committing suicide.’
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      Gloria sighed and shook her head as she spoke. She was moved with great compassion that she almost cried.
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      ‘See how lean I am? My mouth keeps rejecting food and my appetite had gone with the wind. I keep hoping he would change and come back to himself but he gets worse each day. You can’t just imagine some of the nasty things he said and did to me. This suffering is too much and I have done all I could do. I don’t know what to do anymore.’ Tears rolled down her face once more.
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      Gloria was impaired by her words. She didn’t just know what to say. Her jaws were wide apart and lost in deep thoughts.
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      ‘You mean the same Ade? I am deeply confused. That’s a whole lot for me to comprehend. What on heaven and earth came upon him?
      I tell you, this is so knotty for me to think of and I currently can’t get my head straight. I’m even hurt and sorrowful. It is as if I am the one being maltreated. I am not married and I probably am not in the right position to advise you. But, I would be with you throughout all this and support you till your marriage returns to normal. His sudden change didn’t just happen by accident. Something must be wrong somewhere and we will get to the root of it. I know of a marriage counsellor who is very experienced, trusted and knowledgeable. Don’t worry, there is nothing too difficult for our God to do. Wipe your tears friend, we will visit the marriage counselor first thing tommorow morning and get to the root of this.
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      To be continued……

    • #14395
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      Alright, let’s get the ideas rolling.

    • #14392
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      Thanks for this information.

      What are your advise on Getting a good camera? The specifications, where to buy them and how much to get fairly affordable ones?

    • #14351
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      Please, do ask.

    • #14335
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      You can start by reading up this Blog post.

      Welcome to Jedun

      Also, go through this page https://www.jedun.com.ng/faq

    • #14311
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      I have a problem with my Premiere Pro. When I try to export, my computer crashes. What can I do?

    • #14297
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      I don’t know why it’s not uploading from your side, but It’s going well over here.

      I’ll love to see those videos.

      I guess you know how to embed a video on a website.

    • #14296
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

       

      This is a picture

      • This reply was modified 1 year, 8 months ago by Mr Jedu.
    • #14292
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      Can you provide Pictures, Screenshots or even a short Video?

      I’m interested in learning but I can’t really understand it the way you are writing it.

      Can it be more visual so we can see what you are talking about?

    • #14291
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      We are interested, please carry on

    • #14242
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      Welcome brother,

       

      Please, use this particular forum topic to continue your lessons and tutorials. No need to create another forum to continue the lesson.

      Just continue the lesson here, unless you have another completely different tutorial.

       

      I can’t wait to hear more from you.

       

    • #14241
      Mr Jedu
      Keymaster

      Weldone, Mr Williams.

      I’m eager to learn more about Video creation.

      However, you don’t need to create a new Forum topic to continue the same lesson. Just make the next lesson a comment on the same topic you first created.

       

      Unless it’s an entirely new topic, don’t create a new forum topic. Just keep commenting on the topic you first created to avoid unnecessarily jampacked forums.

       

      All the best, brother.

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